“What’s
ego?” It’s a tough question, with several dimensions. But, from a psychological
perspective, it’s what you think you’re – a false sense of self. It’s about
creating a forged image, and then following it assiduously. The more you follow
it, the more you feel comfort in your veins; you earn satisfaction through it,
regardless of pondering its pros and cons…
If you ask me, I
believe, the ego holds you back every single time; it’s indeed the greatest
enemy that never lets you feel the true contentment. Though, you perhaps feel
that you’re satisfied, but it’s the faux and temporary satisfaction, which
gives you the wrong acuity, and in the end makes you feel resentment and
regret; you suffer utter disappointment.
There is one immensely
precarious fact that we don’t realize regarding the ego.
Ego Has Its Own Agenda…
Usually, we waste our
whole lives without comprehending this simple fact. In the form of our goals,
we actually run behind our ego. We set those goals that feed our ego and hand
us the wrong sense of contentment. For that reason, step back for a minute; if
you’re pursuing some goal, consider genuinely; is it for your ego, or for your
soul?
If it’s about your
ego, it would be bringing power and attention. On the other hand, if it’s about
your soul, it would bring love and happiness, in the end, and there won’t be
any sense of competition either; you’ll be relishing your goals and life too
utterly.
If you won’t wake up,
or won’t perceive the agenda of ego, you’d end up in a very sad and lonely
place; you won’t have anything to celebrate; you’ll just lose your life, your
love, and your true friends. Therefore, don’t spend your whole energy in
creating and defending the boundaries… Look for those things that bring peace
for your soul, as they’re your goals.
Before you attempt to
banish your ego, first it’s pertinent to understand its causes, and there are
several of them, such as, high self-esteem, insecurity, narrow mentality,
judgment, dignity, vengeance, resentment, self-importance, competition,
negativity, and etc. These entire factors ignite the flame of ego inside a
person and destroy his precious life, in the long run, that’s why, try to stay
away from them, as much as you can.
Now, in case your ego
is running the show, you can stop it to make your life difficult and free
yourself from it with a few simple tactics. For instance, you can start growing
yourself as an abundant person by giving your time, energy, and resources to
others. This would squelch the “Me” perception, and push you hard to look
beyond your boundaries…
Moreover, love
unconditionally. Don’t ask, what’s in it for me. Just provide love to your
woman/man, life, goals, and people. The more you practice it, the more you
banish the sense of self-importance; you also deal with those things that
compel you from vengeance.
Other than that,
embrace the differences. That’s the most important thing, which we can learn in
our lives. The person who embraces the differences always lives contently, and
without any grudges; he starts seeing the positive
sides more than the negative ones.
Lastly, and most
importantly, do you know you can deal with your ego through Alpha and Beta
tones, at precise frequencies? Actually, it’s kind of a Brainwave Entertainment
that obligates your mind to act in specific ways. After hearing them, in just a
few seconds, you detach yourself from the ego and reclaim your true power; you
start loving your life.
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