As they say, no one can make you feel inferior without your
consent. It’s all in your hands. Just don’t think so much about what others
think of you. Since, this is the first mindset that waters down the confidence
and pushes a person into various facets of depression. There are of course
numerous definitions of confidence, but the first definition is “Ignorance”.
Once you ignore people, or the perception your mind has created, and accept who
you’re and revel in it, you transform yourself into something “Bigger”; you
transforms yourself into a person who achieves things in life, rather than just
wishing about them or cursing his destiny nonstop.
What do we do to build
confidence? Well, we look
for our favorite personality and try to duplicate it. This is the biggest gaffe
we ever make in our life. Copying anyone doesn’t turn us into him/her or inject
doses of confidence inside our veins. It just hands us temporary relief.
However, at the same time, it impels us to feel the guilt that we aren’t who we
“actually” are. Therefore, the first step is to build and trust your own
identity. You aren’t lesser than any superstar. You’ve the ability to outsmart
them, again and again, and again.
There are millions of confidence-building
exercises, but I’ve put together a few tricks that make you feel like a
president in under 2 minutes. They’ve the immense power to make people feel
that you’re something – something larger than life, and better-than-them.
- Positive
Thinking… As coffees turn into contracts, the
positive mindset turns into confidence as well. Usually, people attempt to
emerge confident through body language, or elite performances in work, but the
thing they don’t perceive is that everything begins in their mind. If their
thinking isn’t positive, their body language or appearance won’t be positive
either. For that reason, do your utmost to dominate your mind. Close your eyes
for a few minutes, before every unusual moment, and think positive outcome.
Imagine what would you do when you’ll be in that particular situation and how
would you feel after it.
- Dress Nicely… Through dressing, if you’re feeling
good, successful, and presentable like you’re ready to tackle the world,
nothing can impede your marching feet. Now, it doesn’t mean challenging your
pockets (it’s always nice to wear expensive clothes; isn’t it?), just look nice
and presentable through casual outfits. If it’s possible for you to outsmart
others through clothing, and if it’s fine to spend a tad more money, then do
that too. The key aim is to have a perfect dressing sense, so that you can look
good and feel good all the time.
- Walk Faster… Confident people, with high self esteem, always walk a tad faster than normal people. Don’t believe me?
Google some videos of presidents and even celebrities and canvass their walking
style. They walk a tad fast and, in a way, exhibit that they’ve places to go,
people to see, and important work to do. This turns them into elite and
significant persons in our eyes; we respect them, and take their words more
seriously as well. Besides, this confidence building exercise transforms you
into an enthusiastic person too, as it doesn’t only correct the posture, but
also make you feel more empowered.
On the whole, confidence is important; if
you don’t have it, luckily, it’s possible to get it back. Though, there are
brilliant confidence
building exercises, they are transcending all of them through their tracks – developed by the experts of Binaural Beats and
Isochronic Tones. Their tracks create two different frequency waves that impel
your brain to create a third tone, which causes a shift in consciousness. This
advanced technology has been tested and changed the lives of
numerous people in mere minutes. It’s even adopted by the some pro physicians.
“The way to
develop self-confidence is to do the things you fear
and get a record
of successful experiences behind you.”
- William Jennings
Bryan
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