Broke up? Give this mindset shift audio for Valentine's Day

In this world of 3-D consciousness, love is the most misconstrued word. People treat this divine energy as some sort of a commodity which they seek in the outside world and expect to simply pick it up off the shelf and use it to their satisfaction. Moreover, it is the most abused energy because to most people "love" is all about self-attention, manipulation of emotions, possessiveness and physicality. All these qualities grossly mis-qualify the God-quality of love. Manipulation and compulsions are a stranglehold to a loving relationship. In love, you need to have a heart that is open to receiving and giving, in order for the divine energy to circulate freely.

The inability to love stems from the lack of self-worthiness. When you do not love yourself, you are not able to love others as well. Sometimes life-situations have been very challenging to the self especially where you are compelled to experience humiliation and derision. As a result, you begin to belittle yourself with guilt, blame and shame. Self-condemnation and guilty-conscience are huge obstacles that block the sunlight of God's love-rays to filter in your heart. How then can a heart that is plunged in gloom, languishing for a drop of love, be able to radiate love all around it?

A mal-nourished heart is filled with fears. In the absence of Light and Love, lurk the evil, instigating the mind with the poisons of jealousy and suspicions. Your insecurities compel you to start demanding for validation of love by way of materialism and gifts that mean nothing to the soul.

Unconditional love is immeasurable, sublime and complete. It is a religion in itself. It needs no demonstration or proofs. Words and gifts would fall short of defining such immaculate love. It is juvenile to weigh its worth against the emptiness of materialism because love does not thrive on the vagaries of the world. Love is a state of being-ness, of compatibility; it is fearless and pure, where mistakes are forgiven even before they are committed.

The frustration that you experience in your relationship is the restlessness of the heart that is burdened with guilt and self-condemnation. The fault is not in the other person; it is in your perception of perfection. A perfect relationship starts with you. As long as you cling to an image of some fanciful exalted character for a partner, you will continue to suffer the miseries of an unfulfilled dream and disillusionment. A soul-mate may come in your life, and you will not even know because your fixation of perfection is purely physical, thus blinding you from seeing the love and perfection in others. Outer appearances are deceptive. Many people in their zest to seek a "perfect" partner have landed up in all kinds of abusive relationships, and have been sorely hurt by them all. Love is a heart-to-heart connection which many fail to experience because their infatuation with the physical appearances distracts them from perceiving the soul of the person concerned.

Regardless of your heartaches from the disastrous relationships of the past, you can still hope to live and love again in a wholesome way. There are various programs that help heal the heart and re-set the mind in its right perspective. The brainwave audio series found here: http://www.unexplainablestore.com/products/find-love.php are exceptional as they have an empowering impact upon the heart and mind of the practitioner. The powerful vibrational frequencies generated by these products eliminate all the debris of your negative emotions and help reconnect your heart to the Cosmic Fountainhead for a continual influx of the divine energy. Then, as you begin to pulsate with the radiating energies, you automatically become a magnet for attracting love of the purest kind unto you.

5 Surprising Signals that He's Thinking About You

Perhaps you've turned and caught your guy staring at you; the soft expression, witty eyes with such strong emotions that you feel like throwing yourself into his arms. What's he really thinking about? Quite often, girls miss it even on the most obvious signs that their guys are really into them and are thinking about them all the time. Well, even before he says a thing about what he feels about you, you can easily tell everything you need to know just by his actions. Read through to discover 5 surprising signals that he's thinking about you.

1. He'll keep on checking up on you

When your guy is always checking up on you all the time with calls, texts, emails or even visits, he'll only mean one thing- you're always on his mind. What else could be bothering him to keep saying hi? Trust me, he'll always be nursing this need to get in touch with someone he feels quite attracted to. It's quite fascinating!

2. He'll want to hang out with you all the time

Well, if he's really thinking about you, don't be surprised if he asks you what you'll be doing tonight, what's your plans for the weekend or how possible it is for you to drop by and hang out at his place for quite some time. Of course, he's quite excited spending some quality time with you. He's really thinking about you and doesn't mind to attract love and attention from you.

3. He's in a happier mood every time you're around

Of course, I don't really mean that he should be jumpy and excited each time you're together- however, if he goes for hours talking to you and even laughs at your jokes even when they're not funny, he's really into you. All he wants is you to love him back. Forget the jokes. He's simply sending some mixed signals that he really doesn't mind getting into a relationship.

4. He brings you the things he knows you'd like

You'll hear someone call your name. When you look up, there he is, standing right in front of you with the bag of Cheetos or box of chocolate you've been craving in the morning. He'll drop it at your lap and leans over to kiss your forehead. When he's such willing to get you things you'd like, he's probably thinking about you all the time. All you've got to do is smile back at him. He'll really fall for this too!

5. He'll have everything thing reminding him of you

If your guy is always saying "Hey, remember that time that we…" every time you see a road sign, coffee shop, nature park or any other thing, I bet he's always thinking about you. Seeing you in everything around him can only imply how much he's for your love and relationship. You'll want to smile back even if you don't really remember what he's talking about.

Of course, we all know how it feels to feel attracted to someone. However, there's nothing more frustrating than getting it wrong from the start. Perhaps looking out for the above signs can confirm if he's really thinking about you!

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Finding True Love

The one thing which most of us look towards is for Romantic Love. We have an expectation that there is a person who will fulfil us, who will come into our life and make us "happy". Now, I am not saying that you shouldn't seek relationships but there is a catch. Seek to give love, not the other way of only taking it from one person. Give love to everyone who comes into your life, you will enjoy your life to a much greater extent. Sure, there can be a person from whom your love reflects back to a much greater degree and you can call it a Romantic relationship. Dance together with everyone in this wonderful song of life, not just wait for one dancer to focus on.

Let's see the ways in which you can be a source of love to "the one" and also to the many.

• Spirituality

All spiritual teachings emphasize the importance of being in touch with something that is greater than your usual self. Call it Christ consciousness, peace, love, God, reality etc. Being in touch with it will make you confident, lovable and energetic. There are various ways suggested by enlightened people, there are different spiritual teachings you can read, and there are different types of meditation you can learn to be in touch with the spiritual side.

• Stop making it a big deal

When we are not enjoying life or when we are not confident in ourselves, we tend to look for some fix to restore us. Yes, that is good logic when we are using means like meditation, self-development or fulfilment in work to feel complete. If we look for a relationship to cover our insecurity, we make a big deal out of it, as if the whole world is going to fall apart if we don't find the "one". From childhood we are fed with a "Happy ever after" situation after finding the prince/princess. There is a happy ever after when you are yourself not after finding person or thing you seek. When we are confident, the way we behave with people is on a different vibe. We are not needy or clingy, so we make mature decisions and be with the right people.

• Move out of comfort zone

You are not going to experience life in your living room. There is a whole world out there for you to interact. You can't just start wishful thinking and hope for the ideal partner to fall into your lap. Yes, rejection sucks but why should it prevent you from meeting people or enjoying your life. Rejection is a good thing to happen. Learn to give "NO" to people and also to take a "NO". It is actually very liberating once you start asking people for what you want.

Let me give you a small example. I was in a restaurant where the music was louder than necessary, I was uncomfortable. If I was my one year older self, I would have not said a thing. I asked in a nice way to reduce the volume, it wasn't done. I told then again in a nice way, it was not done again. I didn't lose my cool, I just decided not to dine there in the future. If I didn't ask in the first place, I would have felt bad for not standing up for myself. Stand your ground, ask for what you want in a nice way. If you succeed it is good, if you don’t it is even better, you now know you need to move on.

• Open mind

I know you must have read the above suggestions somewhere already, but you don't know why things didn't turn the right way. You may believe that doing the things mentioned above are only possible for people who are disciplined, confident, blah, blah, blah. Not true. There is one product that can help with your breaking away from your mind inhibitions. That is the Find Love recording offered by The Unexplainable Store, which also sells a variety of other healing brainwave music. This tone will make you let go of negative emotions and open your heart for giving and receiving love and attention. Try it now and get ready to find your perfect mate!